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Change such an angle and try

12:05, Monday 22 September 2008 .. Link

Change such an angle and try

In the High pressure pumps| Mud pumps| Piston Pumps| Reciprocating Pump| Metering Pumps| Water Injection Pumps past, there was an old lady, kept crying all day. A gentleman asks him after seeing: "Why did the elder person cry all day

Ah? " The old lady says: "I have two daughters, all by making a living by doing small business, the eldest daughter sells the cotton shoe, the little daughter sells the umbrella. Because nobody buys the shoes in day rain, nobody fine buys the umbrella, it is rain that this God is non- fine, how to let me not worry, do not have day not to cry when not having? "

The laugh which that gentleman hears, say: "Haha, the elder person is wrong! Nobody buys the shoes in rain on day, someone just buys the umbrella, nobody fine buys the umbrella, someone just buys the shoes, change an angle and look, yourself have a daughter who has brisk business every day, why is not glad everyday? "

The old lady smiled through tears after hearing.

But a simple story includes an abstruse reason: A same thing changes an angle to observe and think, there is different harvest.

Change a kind of angle and look at problem, it is not anything very simple, in fact, it includes the contents of two respects:

One is to change a kind of angle looking at problem at first. That is to say that don't stay and come to look at problem on the surface of the question, but should jump the core open this question, understand and review the whole story of emergence of this incident in the capacity of an onlooker. Then analyze why the thing can develop into this state of today with the attitude of cooling down, or say in which situation the thing succeeds, then this result will be sustained for a long time, if can't to which is, it direction develop.

As the saying goes " the spectators see the chess game better than the players" ,In fact this onlooker might not be the other side or an outsider, it can be oneself, it should be oneself even more too, it is this authorities person.

A farmer was born in a poor family, the only thing that had was a pair of bowls and chopsticks, a desk and a bed. Though life is poor but very happy, a melancholy rich person comes to his gate, see this poor farmer unexpectedly lives very happily, very puzzled, ask farmers: Your family is penniless, why are you so happily?

The farmer smiles and answers: Penniless to just mean not losing!

The rich's insight: Oneself fear, lose all day because too much, so life unhappy. Rich in heart remain very hollow, at heart inanition force my further more unprincipled collecting the property again. The rich sell off all property of family after receiving inspiration, give it to poor persons, having bought a piece of land in the countryside by oneself, it is " penniless " to cross Life,happiness but also not from then on full of more it live he.

Another story: A leather shoes company in U.S.A. has sent two salesmans to go to the same country to promote one's own products, after reaching, two salesmans find, the people of this country do not wear the shoes at all at the same time. Then they report the situation to the company at the same time.

The first salesman says to the boss: The people of country wear shoes at all, product of us right away turn on the market here at all. The boss finishes hearing and smiles, has not said anything.

Another salesman has reported this thing to the boss too, but he says so: The people in this country do not wear the shoes, it seems our products are large and popular here, should set up branch company in this country rapidly.

Later on the second salesman became bosses of this national branch company.

Having exactly changed the thinking of an angle, the answer is completely different. See two salesman these have nothing different actually, only a different one one posture that look at problem after the thing. One think bad respect one think, one thing likewise good respect, an objective reality, but there are two kinds of completely different future.

Secondly it is the psychology that replaces thinking. Everybody is selfish, often conflict between men, one of greatest reasons is the people's selfishness. We often air one's own views in disputing, do not yield to each other, and may cause the too drastic words and deeds to enable the deterioration of interpersonal relationships. And all of us know the interpersonal relationships worsen and are not merely harmful to the psychological health, unfavorable to personal living environment, have, can speak while being happy at all.

Want to avoid the emergence of this kind of situation, we need psychology to replace, that is to say that tries to stand to go up to the other side's position and think deeply. Pondering over the requirement that oneself put forward in the capacity of the other side, you will find actually the other side's view is reasonable too at this moment, one's own requirement seems a little excessive.

For example all of us go through, pass such a thing we go through such a thing in other words: Parents always propose various too high requirements for us, for example not merely want hard in study, dash and take an exam of the first; Have but training find have undergraduate course above, then training bring the undergraduate course when being finished with great difficulty; Have bring the undergraduate course, work with great difficulty, but find that must be wanted at the work splendidly; Take economical and hardworking in life, best all house works competent

Sometimes really have fire of a stomach that wants to vent in the heart on, but we can't. At this time, we must replace thinking: Think, they are good for us too, " long to see the son succeed in life " in terms of parents " look at the woman Cheng Feng " It is each common fault that parents own in common, if we ourselves become parents one day, that is undoubted, we are sure that will become their reprint too, will propose this or that too high requirement for one's own child too. Think of these, whether feel better in your heart, whether to begin to or not to chatter in these of treasuring parents.

Another a Tongcheng of Anhui " Lane of 2 meters "Story: Story mean people of Anhui Tongcheng pieces of Great Britain make prime minister in Beijing, neighbour of native place mansion Wu build room want, take Zhang house unoccupied place, the Zhang 's has taken the advantage of a government post life or death of Great Britain and does not allow, the question came to a deadlock for the moment. Family Zhang wrote a letter and told a Great Britain this thing at this moment, Zhang Ying criticizes poems to return immediately after learning, poem say " one book it comes to be wall only, let 1 of him might as well. " Family behind seeing letter in reply of Ying Zhang, let, give the 1 place at once, and Wu hear of behind the this, one that is pieces of Great Britain optimistic and tolerant to move, make a concession by 1 meter too

This not merely educates the descendant to understand the optimistic and little story relented, but educate us to know how to replace thinking, after Zhang Ying has just thought deeply for family Wu, just find family Wu's requirement very simple too, not only rational but also really feasible. The requirement of one's own the Zhang 's is a little excessive, why not allow family Wu to build the house, only because is oneself a prime minister?

Conversely, the Wu s made a concession by 1 meter too when building the room finally, prove they thought deeply for the Zhang 's too. A big impressive prime minister can make a concession, it is really difficult, if is still forcibly occupying ground of 2 meters by oneself, really a little excessive, then made a concession by three fen voluntarily.

Just think that, if does not have this to replace and think, what will the consequence?

People, and emotion of people similar, because this piece similar whom we do not can fight for flushed just. It is only the thing of the trifles to be. The existence of the question is natural too, the more important thing is with what kind of angle we treat, this will influence a person's life.

Note:

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Imagine it to imagine the bright blue sky, make people quiet and candid; Imagine blue sky and grassland, make people completely relaxed and happy, comfortable and bold and unconstrained; Imagine the buoyant white clouds in the blue sky, there are relaxed and easy senses.

Imagine the deep and secluded valley of green hill imagining, make the clear air of people's spirit comfortable, imagine the sweet spring, make people calm; Imagine pink willow is green, make happy god of heart speed.

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